Dating and marriage in colonial times Naked kayakers

Posted by / 31-Jul-2017 04:11

Dating and marriage in colonial times

any conservatives think, “back in the day, people were more holy.” But the Scriptures paint a different story. According to Paul, “The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience” (1 Cor a). Nothing under the sun is truly new” (Ecclesiastes 1:9).As what would have been our parents’ 68th wedding anniversary approaches, I reflect not only on their being my parents, but even more so on their courtship. It’s true that theirs was an odd courtship, but historically speaking, courtship has not been without its peculiarities.

Before long, Victorian culture would prevail, and if one term characterized courtship of the 19th century, it would be “calling.” When permitted, gentlemen would call upon young ladies, and it was this custom of calling that eventually segued into “dating.” The transition was not, however, a subtle one. Many aspects of human relationships and marriage are timeless, but there are a lot of differences between modern couples and those who founded Pennsylvania!While there are some modern-day couples who might face some obstacles in gaining acceptance from their families, it’s nothing like what they would have encounter as a 17th-century Quaker.They also forbid widowed Quakers from marrying their spouses’ relatives.The relatives of their deceased spouse were considered to be an extension of their family and violated the colonial marriage customs.

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